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How To Get Off The Bench
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609 responses to "How To Get Off The Bench"
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cn2020 says:Posted: 03 Feb 21
I really want to find a catering, serious ,honest man and God fearing to be my true love for life and most importantly a man we both have same chemistry.
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sissybansong says:Posted: 07 Nov 20
don't feel so big to reach out to me am just small as the aunt !! lol
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dialloamadou says:Posted: 03 Dec 19
I hope too fine a nice guys in this site. I like a good woman
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Queenet82 says:Posted: 17 Sep 19
I desire to meet a loving, caring truthful man with the fear of God here that can love me whole heartedly and we live happily ever. Preferably a white man but most importantly, a man we both have chemistry
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danfx says:Posted: 04 Oct 19
am a Nigerian. I know how to cook tasty meals. am a Catholic. I believe that what is meant to be will be. you look beautiful my queen.
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Tonyglamour says:Posted: 19 Sep 20
Wish you good luck and i hope you fine the real man
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Charlezman says:Posted: 21 Aug 19
It's interracial ......... So am here to get a lady of different race I will welcome her if she gets interested in me
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TVMN says:Posted: 10 Aug 19
Could relate to her story hope mine ends well too!
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Sadayo says:Posted: 23 Jul 19
Surely in ma Life I need a white girlfriend I could love her beyond the even if she's btn 50-20 of age am more than ready 4 her.
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Oldbabe says:Posted: 20 Jun 19
I am here to find a mature man aged 45-65 for friendship, love and Marriage.
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Gratoes says:Posted: 05 Jun 19
My only problem is I'm afraid to date a man who is younger than me
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panae says:Posted: 19 Jun 19
No no no! Don't be scared by that. At least get scared by living without someone who you must string attached to. Age mean nothing when it comes to love. Listen to your heart and get rid of the fear of unkown.
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Mwapangasha says:Posted: 15 Jul 19
Don't be afraid age are just numbers and they have nothing to do in relationship
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DEPLOX says:Posted: 15 May 19
I have admired your profile pliz....and especially the Canadian you're welcome dear
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briiiii82 says:Posted: 14 May 19
she could not trust me and it made me hard to love again,i know yu are out there come and redeem my faith nd love
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Stina200 says:Posted: 08 Sep 19
You are the one to make the boat sail again. You hold the power to make it happen again.
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Basigar says:Posted: 22 Apr 19
I am writing for you.... please come in my life
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Tessydee says:Posted: 20 Apr 19
I need a caring, God fearing man that will be my friend and lover...long term relationship please
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Carolove123 says:Posted: 26 Mar 19
I hope to find a God fearing gentleman. 46_59 years.
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DEPLOX says:Posted: 15 May 19
God fearing is a must but put in mind about blood fearing
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Immay says:Posted: 23 Mar 19
I will wait for my God fearing man
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Ruth116 says:Posted: 19 Apr 21
Same here; great things --- and guys, come to those who wait!
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Tayakay says:Posted: 20 Mar 19
I will wait for you my king
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2i2i says:Posted: 12 Mar 19
I need my soulmate God fear
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P540 says:Posted: 26 Feb 19
I think it is about time that i get off the bench
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divanita36 says:Posted: 28 Dec 18
I think it's about time I got off the bench. I want a serious relationship that could lead to marriage
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Richyblack says:Posted: 14 Nov 18
Please if there's any good looking and God fearing woman of about 21 to 25yrs of age around sapele should please let me know thanks.
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ellashiva says:Posted: 08 Nov 18
Hi I wanna meet my soulmate who's probably ready to settle down and not more than 35yrs.
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emprendedor says:Posted: 18 Oct 18
I’m a real gentleman waiting for you
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emprendedor says:Posted: 18 Oct 18
I would like to meet a wonderful woman.
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78630209 says:Posted: 17 Nov 18
De même je recherche aussi un homme merveilleux
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natniyen says:Posted: 02 Oct 18
I need a loving and caring man to share my life with
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SimplenGreat says:Posted: 16 Oct 18
Hello, hope you are doing well. Please from where?
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Ksmsra says:Posted: 01 Oct 18
I rich woman relationship that will help me with day to days activities
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Sajadmalik says:Posted: 28 Sep 18
Hi
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Argin says:Posted: 17 Oct 18
Hello I'm Camila from cebu ,nice to meet u here ...hoping I can here u again
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Eny4kay says:Posted: 28 Sep 18
get to know your partner before you fall in love
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Towers2016 says:Posted: 26 Sep 18
A Kenyan aged 30 Looking for my companion above 35mature, God fearing and ready to settle down. A real man ready to be loved n love in return preferably in Dubai
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Ntusi says:Posted: 26 Sep 18
I need my soulmate around Durban
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3Dimension says:Posted: 08 Oct 18
Hey dear.. Soon it will come. Just a little time
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Rudelph says:Posted: 16 Oct 18
I am that person that you are looking for. So your problems is over.
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FunkyFunkid says:Posted: 31 Aug 18
Wooooooooow how can I stay on a bench i just wanna be inside some one's heart any real trustworthy woman out here on Afro?
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Noila says:Posted: 19 Aug 18
I need my soulmate God fearing and understanding.
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Foumous says:Posted: 17 Sep 19
I'm more than what you wish for come foumous is waiting for u
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nawen says:Posted: 15 Aug 18
Wooooooooow how can I stay on a bench i just wanna be insidesome one's heart any real trustworthy man out here on Afro?.
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okwany says:Posted: 26 Aug 18
Wow! Nawen thats` great then, i think your are the best lover in the world dear. Please can we link up swry`
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ActionAJ says:Posted: 14 Aug 18
I'm looking for the special female whom I can admire, conversate,explore, challenge and most of important love.
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Enna78 says:Posted: 11 Aug 18
I need a God-fearing man who will truly love me.
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Zacchmore says:Posted: 19 Aug 18
If she would be sincere with the statement I preffer her
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damientru says:Posted: 24 Sep 18
Is that all tell me more lets get to know each other
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Eny4kay says:Posted: 28 Sep 18
all men claiming to be God fearing but not all just try and pick one out and pray over it
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simonluk says:Posted: 02 Feb 21
for sure GOD fearing relationship has many benefits and easy way. i too love so
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Skylark101 says:Posted: 30 Jul 18
Am here to hookup with real a real Lady for dating, hope I'll find one...
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A young woman was having a conversation with her pastor, lamenting her singleness. "Pastor, I'm 34 years old and I still haven't got married". "God has a plan for you. It's one man for one woman. There's no improving on it." Encouraged, the woman says to the pastor, "I don't want to improve on God's plan. I just want to get in on it!"